A few pointers i found out lately
I've learned some stuff about girls lately, interesting stuff that i've never known. Girls, please comment and tell me whether they're true. It's when you're talking to girls, close friends excluded.
1. When talking to girls, dont try too hard to make conversation. It'll only turn the girl off. Instead, just chat randomly.If the girl starts giving u messages like 'lol', 'ok', change the topic, or stop talking. It's better to shut up than to pursue a topic she doesnt want to talk about.
2. Do NOT comment on their pictures, esp when u dont find it nice. When u find it nice, and u find it hard to resist the urge to comment, just let one line fly and thats it. UNLESS that girl herself starts to talk to you about it, shut up. Telling a girl stuff like 'ok that pic is no good at all, what are you doing in it?' e.g. when a girl is trying to act cute and all, u're diggin ur own grave. ESP when she finds it pretty. If u go on ranting about it, i'm pretty sure she wont want to talk to u for quite some time.
3. Sending vibes that u like her too early causes disaster. ( Well, obviously you wouldnt talk to someone you're not familiar with unless u have a urge to right? ) It doesnt turn a girl off, it scares her and once again, she might not talk to you after that. It's always better to be a cool, ( not acting cool ) and hilarious person. It doesnt turn her on, but i think it makes her SLIGHTLY more interested in the convo.
4. Keep the convo short and sweet. Long convo merely bores them. Afterall, u guys dont know each other that long yet right? Coz after a while, they wont know what to talk, and awkward convo leads to no talking. Hmmm.
5. Dont repeat a request too many times, or keep on ranting about it. E.G. say u're asking her to 'dance' with u in an msn convo, if she says no, it's better to say
'awwww.. i'll dance with my teddy baer then *sobs*'
than to ask
'why not? yerrr... dance with me laaaaa'
ranting annoys them.
6. Dont self praise too much. It makes u sound arrogant, and repeated arrogance leads to disgust. Normal is good =)
7. Be nice, but dont be TOO nice. I dont know how to explain this, but i think i'm right by saying that sometimes being evil and mean or even fierce ( okay mayb not fierce ) makes the convo more interesting. A forever nice guy, will just bore them.
I'm not saying that all the above points are true, but thats what I THINK might be true. Please correct me if i'm wrong. Gotta learn =)
1. When talking to girls, dont try too hard to make conversation. It'll only turn the girl off. Instead, just chat randomly.If the girl starts giving u messages like 'lol', 'ok', change the topic, or stop talking. It's better to shut up than to pursue a topic she doesnt want to talk about.
2. Do NOT comment on their pictures, esp when u dont find it nice. When u find it nice, and u find it hard to resist the urge to comment, just let one line fly and thats it. UNLESS that girl herself starts to talk to you about it, shut up. Telling a girl stuff like 'ok that pic is no good at all, what are you doing in it?' e.g. when a girl is trying to act cute and all, u're diggin ur own grave. ESP when she finds it pretty. If u go on ranting about it, i'm pretty sure she wont want to talk to u for quite some time.
3. Sending vibes that u like her too early causes disaster. ( Well, obviously you wouldnt talk to someone you're not familiar with unless u have a urge to right? ) It doesnt turn a girl off, it scares her and once again, she might not talk to you after that. It's always better to be a cool, ( not acting cool ) and hilarious person. It doesnt turn her on, but i think it makes her SLIGHTLY more interested in the convo.
4. Keep the convo short and sweet. Long convo merely bores them. Afterall, u guys dont know each other that long yet right? Coz after a while, they wont know what to talk, and awkward convo leads to no talking. Hmmm.
5. Dont repeat a request too many times, or keep on ranting about it. E.G. say u're asking her to 'dance' with u in an msn convo, if she says no, it's better to say
'awwww.. i'll dance with my teddy baer then *sobs*'
than to ask
'why not? yerrr... dance with me laaaaa'
ranting annoys them.
6. Dont self praise too much. It makes u sound arrogant, and repeated arrogance leads to disgust. Normal is good =)
7. Be nice, but dont be TOO nice. I dont know how to explain this, but i think i'm right by saying that sometimes being evil and mean or even fierce ( okay mayb not fierce ) makes the convo more interesting. A forever nice guy, will just bore them.
I'm not saying that all the above points are true, but thats what I THINK might be true. Please correct me if i'm wrong. Gotta learn =)
posted by Lim He Hui at
12:07 PM
2 Comments:
1. i dont think u needs to try HARD to make a convo with me.
2. you never give me nice expression on any pic of me, wether they're nice or not.
3. i think i'll give u a dont-play-la face if u confess to me. haha
4. a long convo is always still not long anough for us, maybe we can try short convo next time.
5. i'm glad these pointers are referring to girls only. i'll continue requesting more photos with you!
6. no comment. you don't always praise yourself with me.
7. but you're forever bad guy! treat me better next time la. hehe
well actually i did saw the sentence "close friends excluded". just.... leave this comment to let you know i did came here. eh... miss you la babi, fast fast finish exam please.
I read this last night but didn't get a chance to leave a comment. Anywya, dude, you know what, you are actually sort of right on. ;)
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