When you step into another person's shoes

Is this ever possible? To actually put yourself into someone elses shoes, and think how they would think? I believe not. How is anyone supposed to know and understand your exact background? Every single memory you have? and besides, not influenced by their own thoughts, and decide solely based on your judgement? But then again, this just proves that every single soul is unique, and will never be the same.

Then again, this defines you. So why should you think like someone else, be someone else, just to please them? Selfish thought, but it is true. If i was asked what i learnt in uni, the 1st thing i'd answer you is to be selfish. Care about yourself, more than you care about anyone else. People in general of course. The perfect model to be a great person would be someone who is outspoken like british, they voice out when they're treated unfairly, they fight for their rights, but at the same time, learn the value of being humble, which chinese overdo-s. Be humble when you voice your thoughts, let your superior speak. And personally, i'd add 1 more thing, which is to learn how to shut up. Learn to ignore idiotic comments, and smile at them instead. oh yeah, this is something i've practiced so much here. I smile at you when i dont like u.

"Hello there," *smile* #undertone = fuck you

Okay i'm way off topic. This is because I cant decide what to talk about.

when you're talking about putting yourself in your girlfriend/family/friend shoes = you mean you actually have to be them, care about their thoughts

when you're talking about putting yourself in your boss's shoes = his ego and i suppose the company's best interest?

it's 2 complete different things.

if there's an actual skill that allows souls to transfer body and transfer back, i would do it. I think it'd open your eyes very much when you look/feel/touch through someone elses sensors. a whole new world =)

point is, people keep comparing themselves to other people, getting jealous of someone else, because of who they are, their achievements. i'd say i myself have fallen victim to such a thought. Comparing, wanting to be someone else. however, it's nice enough to know that the person you care the most about, thinks that you'll always be the best in her eyes. And fee, i thank you for that =)

growing up makes you evil =( fake smiles, fake laughter, fake fake fake fake. ooh how i wish my assignments and exams are all fake too =(

其实自己一个更开心
只等你讲
其实大家早已嫌大家却扮忙
恨有多一点碰撞
仍然无聊事干不敢打搅对方
要是你愿意
诚实讲一趟
彼此都起码觉得释放
不要哭
我也忍得了这些年来的委曲
没法真心爱下去
只好真心真意的结束
别再做情人
做只猫做只狗
不做情人
做只宠物至少可爱迷人
和你不瞅不睬
最终只会成为敌人
沦为旧朋友　是否又称心
没有心　只像闲人
若有空　难道有空可接吻
注定似过路人陌生　你怎么手震
长期被迫恋爱也真的　失恋更惨
长期扮演若无其事般　更困难
是我专登反应慢
明明为时甚晚
牌一早该要摊
再像我伴侣　仍望多一眼
一生都将会记得今晚
这预告发自虔诚内心
对不起
自动分手错愕的你怕会伤感
盲目的我
现在也可转台来贺你新生
和你相交不浅无谓明日会被你憎